Welcome to the Hauze

the latonya mechelle experience

The time has finally come!  The release of my new baby, The Hauze Of Love.  A regular pregnancy lasts nine months.  The birthing of this baby has taken me 20 years.  I knew when my ex husband and I first separated back in 2001, that I wanted to become a Matchmaker & Love Coach.  I did a little something something on the downlow and was very successful.  However, I allowed fear of failure to stand in the way from me jumping.  

Months ago, I attended an event, hosted by the Steve & Marjorie Harvey Foundation.  While sitting there, I kept thinking about all of Steve's accomplishments.  As of a matter of fact, my thought was, if he could do it, so the hell could I!  He calls it JUMP! Jump Unto the Master's Plan!  Well Mr. Harvey, your girl is JUMPING!  I'm not even worried about a parachute.  


Welcome Welcome Welcome to The Hauze Of Love! The place where we get to change the look of love and relationships. Whether you're single or have been in a relationship for many years, our services are set up to trigger a change from within that will make you the best mate ever.  It's all about facing your own demons and reprograming your mind to release any and all things that has hindered you from obtaining peace, love and joy.  Time to say good bye to trauma, time to let down the walls, time to stop walking on eggshells, time to stop holding back.  I get to watch people take off their masks and begin to operate in the being that they were created to be.


I am not your average Love Coach and/or Matchmaker.  Throw away your old train of thinking when it comes to self-love, dating and relationships and lets create new foundations where winning is the only option.   


Oh yeah, be sure to check out my weekly blogs.


LaTonya MeChelle


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Sity Singles 

Self Love & Relationship Coach

Sity Singles is an exclusive matchmaking service designed to not only help you find your “Wow Factor,” but to also make sure you are mentally and spiritually prepared to give the best version of yourself once your mate has been selected. We have put together a great dynamic of skilled individuals, creating the perfect POWER TEAM, who’s ultimate goal is to help every member find their “imperfectly perfect” mate. We customize each experience with personal attention, tailored to the member’s needs, wants and desires. Sity Singles is not a matchmaking service that operates on physical looks alone. With our organization, it’s about compatibility and the full package that's intended to lead two people to become Life Partners. This power team takes a well-rounded approach with each member when it comes to finding a mate that is compatible spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically. Our goal is to find the right person whom you wouldn’t mind being your “forever date,” because you couldn’t see yourself with anyone else as your life partner.  This process starts with YOU, the client, before we even begin sourcing, making sure you are prepared for a healthy relationship. 


The Love Leader

Self Love & Relationship Coach

Back in 2012, LaTonya's  boyfriend at the time, told her, one day you're going to choose to love a man and the two of you are going to change the look of love.  He said the two of you will be examples of what true love looks like and people will start believing in love again.    When he told her this, she was like, okay, lets do it.  He said, it's not me.  You haven't really chosen me.  I'm just the messenger.  Years later, while attending Professional Speaker Training with Les Brown, they were tasked to create a name for their twitter page.  She couldn't think of one.  Ona Brown, Les Brown's daughter, gave her the name, The Love Leader.  To this day, LaTonya still doesn't remember why she picked that name but she stuck with it.   To most, these two occurrences probably don't mean a thing.  To LaTonya, they are two of many occurrences that has led her to The Hauze Of Love.   Finding your purpose is so important in life.  She has found hers and she's here to share it with the world. 

LaTonya believes, lives and trains with the CHOICES concept. We CONSTANTLY HAVE OPPORTUNITIES to INCREASE CHANGE & EMPOWER SELF. We always have options and opportunities and it's up to us, to be intentional about life so that we are constantly aware and don't miss out on our blessings. We all were brainwashed at one time. Life was never meant to be hard and the day you realize this and begin to operate with that thought, is the day that you will understand the power of CHOICES. We must learn to invest in and make ourselves a priority. People treat us how we allow them to treat us, so it's up to us to show and hold them accountable for treating us right.

LaTonya is all about YOU! No more pointing fingers. Yes, you are part of the problem and it's time to change that. She is a Coach who is far from traditional but as effective as they come. She is all about positive energy. Her creative mind, love for people, past experiences allows her to be one of the most dedicated and precise Coaches, out here today. She will be your biggest supporter and accountability partner! However, taking responsibility starts with you. Forget what happened yesterday, today is what matters and you have what it takes. You are the secret and She is ready to show you how to tap into all of your greatness. Everyone deserves love, happiness and peace and all of that starts with self. Once you tap into that, your personal, business and even love life will blossom.  Here are some topics that she touches on: 

  • Breaking Down Walls That I Didn't Know I Had

  • Loving Me More Makes Me Love You More

  • Rekindling Our Passion

  • I Don't Want To Be A Slave To Sex Anymore

  • Lets Talk About How We Really Feel

  • Saying Good Bye To My Past

  • I'm More Than Just A Parent 

  • Rebuilding Trust

  • I'm No Longer A Victim To Anything 

If you trust her to assist in debriefing you from your unnecessary mess, she promise you that winning will be your only option and a major factor in your new lifestyle. LaTonya look forward to serving you.


“What if you find out that you've had this thing called love wrong, the whole time.  But, you could make it right, if you want to?” 

- LaTonya MeChelle -

The LaTonya MeChelle Experience

Coach, Media Personality, Inspirational Speaker 

Beginning grade school in Japan, attending high school in Spain, LaTonya's life has always been full of adventure. She realized at a young age that she has a magnetizing effect on people of all nations. Her raw, unapologetic demeanor has a way of having people trust her spirit instantly. Stranger has no meaning in her world and she has figured out a way to show all love, that graces her presence. After 24 years of serving her country in the United States Air Force & being a sought out Recruiter & Program Manger in the Federal Government Contracting Arena, LaTonya decided she was tired of the 9 to 5 way of life. It was time for her to pursue her passion of people and step out on faith. She made a decision to leave the DMV after 26 years and head to Atlanta, GA, she hasn't looked back since.

it's funny, that's how my professional bio starts off.  Yes, I own two successful businesses and I'm involved in some great collaborations.   Truth be told it's my personal bio too, minus the rawness of the hurt and pain that I endured and conquered to get to this moment in time.  Can you believe at the age of 51, it's just hitting me that it's time to start over again and truly take a chance on myself?  To really stop worrying about the Politically Correct versions of my stories, bios, write ups and even how I run my company and to truly focus on being free and RAW.  Time to speak my truth.  

​From a Sports Analyst on TV, her Let Him Talk Live & Stamped Talk Show, Red Carpet Interviewer, to one of the most transparent Interviewers out, Blogger, Writer and Editor In Chief of two magazines, LaTonya MeChelle is definitely doing what it takes to make her name a household name one day. Although LaTonya's schedule is extremely business, she is still asked frequently to conduct interviews, host and/or attend events .

Her passion and drive has gotten her invited to provide media at the Essence Festival, The Legendary Awards, Mayor Andrew Young Birthday Celebration, BMI's Celebration Of Legends and much more. Her resume includes one on one interviews with Michael Jai White, Pastor Marvin Winans, Evander Holyfield, Louis Gossett Jr, Brad James, Keith David, Silk, Ronnie Devoe, Q Parker, Kirk Franklin, James Fortune, Pastor Jamal Bryant and more.

She is an Inspirational Speaker, trained by the Legendary, Les Brown, who uses her transparency and life experiences to motivate my audience. Her diverse life experiences which includes: living all over the world and dealing with all types of people, being a domestic violence victim for 12 years and then becoming an Abuser, dealing with many years of rejection and low self-esteem, being a victim of sexual harassment, raising a son solo, being date raped at the age of 48, a visionary of a movement that most have issues with but because of her passion for change and black men, she won't stop, and so much more, allows her to be one of the most unapologetically Speakers and Hosts out. Being relatable and real as possible with your audience is how people walk away wanting to do better and work towards their healing. She is all about inspiring others to know that we constantly have opportunities to increase change and empower self. We can do whatever we put our minds to.

Two Wine Cups

Our Talk Shows

Love & Happiness & Sity Singles 

The Hauze Of Love is excited to launch two talk shows hosted by LaTonya MeChelle. 


Love & Happiness Talk Show  was created to have transparent conversations about our guests thoughts on love and happiness. This show is open for both couples and singles.  We are looking for guests who are single, dating, married, in a polygamy relationship and relationship experts.   

Sity Singles Talk Show  was created to have transparent conversations about our guests thoughts on love and happiness. This show is open for both couples and singles.  We are looking for guests who are single, dating, married, in a polygamy relationship and relationship experts.  

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